findourselvesinsiberia: actually the best. omg...

F.A.Q.
Question: Is Jerzi your real name?

Answer: Of course, why would I lie to you? My dad's siblings name their daughters after places too apparently..

Question: Are you Chinese?

Answer: NO. Nor am I Korean, Japanese, Hispanic, Hawaiian, Vietnamese, Indonesian, or Indian. I AM FILIPINO! Haha

Question: Why do you prefer not to date a non-christian?

Answer: The reason i don't want someone who is not a Christian is: 1. I'd probably compromise my faith by adopting some of the lifestyle of that person. 2. The relationship would end anyways due to constant conflicts. && 3. It would be rare that we would maintain respect for our different beliefs. I'm looking for the qualities found in 1 Corinthians 13 [see scroll box below] because I want a relationship that will build both of us up. I know a lot of people spend most of their time looking for the right one, i'm guilty of that, but i now realize that i should focus more on becoming the right one. BUT yeah. definitely do NOT wanna marry a non-christian. d:

Question: What are you looking for in a guy anyway?

Answer: i'm kinda picky, but here's some of the things i'm looking for.

Someone who:
-is my age or older.
-is reliable and committed to God.
-can sing and play an instrument<3 [if you play piano or drums, that's a plus]
-will be willing to travel with me everywhere! Hawaii, Japan, Paris/Europe, Greece, Et cetera.
-isn't afraid to try new things or leave their comfort zone.
-loves to write. [short stories, songs, anything]
-won't be too shy, but is not too bold to make himself look like a fool. lol.
-is not short tempered or is into self destruction.
-will put up with my low self esteem moments. d:
-won't try to get me to do stuff i feel uncomfortable with.
-is patient and polite;; not jealous or selfish.
-won't hold grudges and will easily forgive.
-doesn't have a problem saying "i'm sorry"
-is loyal to God, his family, me and his friends.
-trusts me and won't flirt with other girls. that'd be nice..
-can be straight up honest with me.
-will be somewhat protective over me.
-won't bail out when times are tough.
-is wise, well educated, and has a motivation to go far with his education.
-has a car, a job, a house?, and respect for his/my family. :D
-is good with kids. that makes my heart melt.
- will sing cute love songs randomly :D? [OPTIONAL]
-won't be too clingy.
-doesn't mind asking my parents permission to do anything but mainly to ask me out. 1. bc my parents like that, 2. bc i like that, 3. it'll make you the best person ever in my book. <3

more to come...

1 Corinthians 13
Love
⁴Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

⁸Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. ⁹For we know in part and we prophesy in part, ¹⁰but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. ¹¹When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. ¹²Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

¹³And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.